Contraction of your vaginal muscles creates tension, which is why you're feeling that your vagina is too tight for penetration of any kind. When. Navigating a pandemic-caused sexual dry spell? If so, you might worry "is my vagina too tight to for enjoyable penetration?" Here, an OB/GYN. And why does it feel so freakin' good when it's touched and stroked? At first, your vaginal muscles may be tense after weeks or month without. In general, that's largely a myth. Fact is, your vagina is very stretchable. “Any vagina has the capacity to have elasticity. After all, a baby's head.